(i cant help but show this to the whole world.. heheh)

..hOOrAyy.. for myself haha

another task done in the very lengthy wedding to - do list.

Yep. We finally compeleted the tiresome (but worth it, of course) pre wedding course in the cathedral today. I guess all Catholic wedding couples know that this is a MUST.

hmm..i just wish that J was with me today..and receive the certificate.

feeling neglected..?huhuh..not the right time to complaint. shouldn't be.

Having a wedding to plan and do a lot of things surely needs both the bride and groom to work together. but..work commitment and other unavoidable stuff that get in the way shouldn't be taking a toll on the relationship. kn..kn..?
(i'm sure ur smiling if you've been thru' this haha)


wellllllllllll....i'll just make sure J treats me to a nice meal once he's here heheheh
cos there are more in the list that need to be done.

tO - dO list this month: Exciting stuff (^_^)

nc says: pre wedding courses: its good to know these things. :)

..my frens said im having THE marriage fever. perhaps. - been doing preparation stuff at the wrong time, wrong place, writing messages to wrong people..this..that..that..this. huh..and the big date is actually in November. i know..its quite a long way to go yet. but i dont have a sidekick in this. i hate doing thingssssssssssssssssssssss alone.

it's the school holiday. everybody important seems to be a teacher. now u see them. now u dont. For now..i see them.

(..BiG sighhh)



anyway.
was at the pre marriage talk last nite - part 1.
About 50 couples were there. too bad nad nad,, ur not there,, kalu nda,, blh kita katawa2 ni..at some real life stories the speaker shared that can really be related with each of us.



hmm..so this is what pre talk is all about.
2 words for me to describe it: reality bites.
It's obvious that no marriage is a fairy tale. If you can make it to 3 years,, u might have a chance..and if u've been together for 20 years or so..then ur doing fine. yes, fine. Not FANTASTIC or SUPERB, since some couples still face the risks of a divorce even at this stage. reason? Communication.



Communication.
What is communication..why communicate..how to communicate..hmmm..
It all seemed like the topics ive been preaching before in lecture.
When suddenly it became interesting when the speaker relates it communication between husband and wife.


My fiance couldnt stop laughing..isk3..at the jokes of the speaker - esp when the topic was about men having to be AWARE or BEWARE..of their ladies season.
Red, Yellow, Green.


wanna guess?



but it was great. as i've realized. reality bites.




and the most precious lesson of the day was knowing that the root of all evil is love..for money. which is even mentioned in the holy scriptures. how could anyone fail to realize this? Money. $$$$$



(..stuff flashing in my mind)


......



(..another BIG sigh)
i've got one week.school holiday will be over in a blink. wish me luck.

..i luv cartoonstock. it keeps my feet on the ground.